Know love, Know pain-No love, No life

I have not written this prose under any mental or physical turmoil, this is just a topic that popped up in my filthy mind when I was so jobless dweeb that I actually started counting the multitude of stars and unfortunately it also did not work well so tried on my academics and suddenly ‘eureka’ moment arrived and thoughts cluttered around in the cloud. A plethora of incorrigible questions were coming in my mind….does a person really needs someone to whom he can express candidly, and once he achieves what he wanted primly, why he stops realizing its value. And the momentous one, when you are in a relationship, the responsibilities are gifted to you and you feel amateur to handle even one from a gamut and finally they transform into liabilities, why??

An aura of romance surrounds you every time, even the detested enemies look sweeter and change to lighthearted frenemies, incredibly a feeling flares that the psycho professors pacify you, amazingly you start appreciating insatiable mess food, the frenzied warden becomes caring guardian, the cute girl next door who genuinely has a crush on you which is not at all less than a miracle remarkably gets no attention from you, tongue-lashings from parents sound like opera song or hard rock music, these are the disclosures and soothing symptoms when you veritably are in love with a bona fide. Love is just a characteristic espoused by liking and affection. And then it gets the path by different ways-meeting, chatting, dreaming, messaging, altercation and so forth. Being an engineer, I must articulate that love does not depends on platform so, love is an independent path function. It is just a four letter word with no exact synonym but has the power more than a nuclear reactor, even more than the great scammers Suresh Kalmadi and A. Raja. I have been through many paragons of love in my life. It’s just the deprivation of love that neither India and Pakistan are together, nor hindu and muslim.

Love for an individual should be like an asset not a liability. Love is not abortive only if it behaves like an irreversible equation, i.e. A and B both love each other irrespective of the time and amendments in between. When one gets into commitment, it’s the best feeling ever but as the time subjugates the euphoria, it becomes mediocre and then exacerbates followed by the altercation. Why does it pain if our lover ignores or feigns to be involved in some momentous event or even if genuinely busy, it’s nothing but a word called expectations which makes you cogitate not only on big issues but even on meager or trivial one. It’s a universal truth that if an individual wants to move on his life in jovial state forever not sporadically, he should not compare and should not have expectations too, this duo is just the key to live a felicitous life. I feel jittery for the relationship I have with a complaisant girl, my audaciousness just ceases, the time I think spending my life without her. I m precocious but unable to unravel the mystery, and as the days are passing it is becoming byzantine. Not sleep, but even when I nap, she doesn’t leave me alone and helps me in better efficacy of rejuvenation. Hardly a minute or two, passes without cogitating of her or anything concerned with her.

God has loved us in a way that has given us life. The atoning death of Jesus provides the means by which we enter a relationship in which love is received and expressed. With that as the context of the commands to love, the commands are viewed not as the "ought" of compulsion but the “transformation” of internal constraint. To those who encountered the source of love, the commandment to love can be read with hope and joy, because love is not alien to our experience. This seems to be the logic behind Jesus’ statement: love one another as God has loved you. We have been given an overabundance—a surplus—of love.

Thanks for reading it with patience, I would like to end up by saying…..Her admission to my life as a little fairy has meddled the flood of happiness and suppressed my stoical personality. The aureole of felicity has only grew because of her impeccable demeanor in my torpid life.

ps:please leave your comments,thanks for reading.

FROM WOMB TO TOMB

I m a playboy if I hang out with different chicks , but if a girl does the same thing(hangs out with boys) I call her whore , slut , and many more offensive and derogatory words which can’t be even mentioned here. I m a man because I have the right and power to molest a teenager and abet her to commit suicide. I am a man because I have the courage to throw acid on any girl who refuses to marry me or rejects my proposal. I am a man because I have the audacity of ripping apart the modesty of a girl next door. I have the fundamental right to stalk a girl, embarrass her in the public to gain her attention and be the center of attraction. Finally, I am a man because I was born in India, the land which gives unconditional supremacy to its masculine gender, right from the inception of life. In fact I was allowed to be born because I was a man! India is not short of such men of substance.
Who is a woman???

A human who is more mature than man , half rhythmic, half frenzied, sensitive, caring, understanding, leads a humdrum life ,cute ambitions(of getting settled with a millionaire or a billionaire :P) and many more…..but then why they are at risk, most vulnerable ???

Rape, molestation, dowry deaths – can you imagine any single day when you had picked up a newspaper and hadn’t come across this ugly jargon??? What do we mean when we say Goa has become dangerous for woman??? The truth is it was never safe .Why the medical termination of pregnancy @MTP rate (abortion) in India, so high??
Apathy to the birth of a baby girl in India is well known. Even I remember the irony in my brother’s home when the second very cute girl was born (after the first girl), my niece, I heard my bua (paternal aunt) saying” bechari key larkhi hui hain”@the poor lady has given birth to a baby girl, so what, what makes a difference??? I think we are the only nation on the face of the earth where a mother becomes woeful on giving birth to a baby girl.

Why are women ill-treated and why is there innocence being buried under deep stacks of cash notes?

Researchers have dictated that about 9, 5000 women in India are stabbed to death over the dowry issue. The statistics are more in Bihar and Uttar Pradesh but sadly the largest IT sector of the country Bangalore has also recorded an alarming rise. I was taken aback when saw Bangalore on the top which is known for people with posh living and broad mentality. . Despite of all these protest why India is still holding the stigma of dowry?

We have so many live examples. Women are trying hard to save their lives with the support of legal amendments, media support, serious activism, and heightened awareness .Why not women can be completely relieved from this pain and burden? Every 18 seconds a woman is ill-treated in the world, according to information of "United Nations". And at least one of every five is a victim of ill-treatment in her own house, according to information of “World Health Organization”.

The practice continues unabated on a very large scale. It’s high time for us all to wake up and give a serious call to these alarming issues in India.

It was my frustration which asked me to shove out my thoughts and I tried my best but still baffled. It took 20 years for me to realize how unparalleled and important a woman is in my life (most of the guy’s life) as a mother, sister, best friend, girl friend, maternal & paternal aunt etc. Well am sorry if anyone is offended. Please leave the comments and be frank!!!

Thanks.